TY - BOOK AU - Goulston,Mark TI - Just listen: discover the secret to getting through to absolutely anyone SN - 9780814414033 AV - HF5718 .G68 2010 U1 - 650.1/3 22 PY - 2010///] CY - New York PB - American Management Association KW - Business communication KW - Interpersonal communication KW - fast KW - Interpersonale Kommunikation KW - gnd KW - Innerbetriebliche Kommunikation KW - Persuasive Communication KW - Interpersonal Relations KW - Negotiating KW - methods N1 - Includes index; Foreword / Keith Ferrazzi -- Acknowledgments -- section I. The secret to reaching anyone -- 1. Who's holding YOU hostage? -- The persuasion cycle -- The secret : getting through is simple -- 2. A little science : how the brain goes from "NO" to "YES" -- The three-part brain -- Amygdala hijack and the death of rational thought -- Mirror neurons -- From theory to action -- section II N2 - The first make-or-break step in persuading anyone to do any thing is getting them to hear you out. Whether the person is a harried colleague, a stressed-out client, or an insecure spouse, things will go from bad to worse if you can't break through emotional barricades ER -