TY - BOOK AU - Kang,Shimi K. TI - The dolphin way: a parent's guide to raising healthy, happy, and motivated kids--without turning into a tiger SN - 9780399166044 AV - HQ769 .K298 2014 U1 - 649/.1 23 PY - 2014///] CY - New York PB - Jeremy P. Tarcher, Penguin KW - Child rearing KW - Parenting KW - Motivation (Psychology) in children KW - fast KW - Child Rearing KW - Motivation KW - Child KW - Nonfiction N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 299-316) and index; pt. 1: The dilemma : "I know this doesn't feel right, but everyone else is doing it" ; The reign of the tiger ; What happens to children raised by tigers? -- pt. 2: The solution : swimming with the dolphins. The twenty-first century is the age of the dolphins ; How do dolphins thrive? -- pt. 3: Taking action : achieving twenty-first-century success through balance. The basics are first and foremost ; Play is in our nature ; Humans are social beings ; A dolphin parenting toolkit -- pt. 4: Transformation : living a life of health, happiness, and self-motivation. Self-motivation is lasting ; What happens to children raised the dolphin way? ; Getting back to being human N2 - The author " ... shows why pushy, hovering 'tiger parents' and permissive 'jellyfish parents' actually hinder self-motivation. She proposes a powerful new parenting model: the intelligent, playful, highly social dolphin. Dolphin parents focus on maintaining balance in their children's lives to gently, yet authoritatively guide them toward lasting health, happiness, and success"--Front dust jacket flap UR - http://catdir.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy1413/2012276732-b.html UR - http://catdir.loc.gov/catdir/enhancements/fy1413/2012276732-d.html ER -