TY - BOOK AU - Nelsen,Jane TI - Positive discipline SN - 0345487672 AV - HQ770.4 U1 - 649/.64 PY - 2006/// CY - New York PB - Ballantine Books KW - Discipline of children N1 - "Originally published in a different form by Sunrise Press, Fair Oaks, California, in 1981. First revised edition published by Ballantine Books, a division of Random House, Inc., in 1987"--; Includes bibliographical references (p. [335]-342) and index; Foreword --; Preface and acknowledgments --; Introduction to the third edition --; The; Positive approach --; Some basic concepts --; The; Significance of birth order --; A; New look at misbehavior --; Beware of logical consequences --; Focusing on solutions --; Using encouragement effectively --; Class meetings --; Family meetings --; Personality : how yours affects theirs --; Putting it all together --; Love and joy in homes and classrooms --; Appendix I :; Starting a positive discipline study group --; Appendix II :; Developing social responsibility through peer counseling --; Appendix III :; Letter to parents --; Notes --; Suggested readings --; Index N2 - The key to positive discipline is not punishment, Jane Nelsen tells us, but mutual respect. Nelsen coaches parents and teachers to be both firm and kind, so that any child--from a three-year-old toddler to a rebellious teenager--can learn creative cooperation and self-discipline with no loss of dignity ER -